Have you ever worked with someone that always seemed irritated or agitated? You never know at what point they are just going to snap at you? Eventually, we find that it doesn’t take too long for that attitude to rub off on everyone else’s attitudes as well.
What is anger? It tends to be an emotion that ranges from mild irritation to intense fury and rage. It’s a natural response when we feel threatened, but can also be from frustration when our needs, desires, and personal goals aren’t being met. It’s important to realize that anger is a normal emotion, but when it leads to actions that are impulsive or aggressive, or even violent, this presents a concern.
In my role as an Owner of a Virtual Assistant business, it would be harder for me to see such actions, as I do not necessarily see my team members on a day to day basis, but these actions, when extreme, still can present some red flags.
- Snappy emails. Do employees seem pleasant in their correspondence? Is email communication friendly and inviting, or short and snappy? If short and snappy, maybe try to promote a little more communication from your co-workers or employees. Ask how they are doing or what they did over the weekend. Maybe this will spark the issue and help them move forward.
- Negativity. Do you find the attitude of your employees to be positive consistently, or are you sensing that something is triggering negativity in their work? Maybe they are dissatisfied in what they do and they need more challenges? Are they looking for positive reinforcement? Sometimes it’s easy to fall into the same patterns day in and day out. Break it up. Throw in a company lunch. Encourage employees to be a part of the team and acknowledge their skills and capabilities. Rewards, even in the smallest of circumstances, can go a long way!
- Depression. If every thought is borderline sad or depressing, there may be a very serious, more involved issue. If your company allows, refer them to an Employee Assistance Program, common among benefit plans. This is obviously one of the most extremes of anger in the workplace, but if recognized early, it may avoid accidents or injuries or even disciplinary action such as job loss, arrest, and even imprisonment.
The main point that I want to stress is when employees are happy, the workplace atmosphere is a more serene place. Anger pushes people away and causes negativity to brew amongst employees. Recognize the signs and challenge them. Offer solutions such as an Employee Assistance Program, company lunches, or small talk conversations. Engage yourself with your employees to keep up with what is occurring in their personal lives. Even if they are very private with their own lives, it never hurts to ask questions and show some interest. This may be the subtle differences in keeping a positive work environment amongst all employees, whether they are in your immediate office, or on a virtual team, such as is the case for my team members.